Don't let anyone tell you to be quiet about Child sexual abuse or any abuse. There are so many of us. Church you need to stop covering up and being honest. Maybe there would be less of us if you would have done something way back when you heard the whispers. She was and is one of your best friends as well as a member. You are protecting her and the $$$.Are we to believe that you will protect the kids if it happens with another friend and member? I wonder how many more. I am not her only victim.